I often see in prospective clients that they may very much want the results of mentoring like growth, clarity, action, happiness, letting go, goals, etc. but the fears are greater: exposure, vulnerability, potential for disappointment or failure.
Read MoreEvery aspect of our lives deserves inquiry including how we use technology. Give it a try, be objective. What percentage of your life is lived through your technology device? Pick a number and then begin to really watch yourself, be aware of when and how often you are using and thinking about it. After a day or more of watching, see how close you came to the truth.
Read MoreWithin your diversity of selves you can find that some of them lead, some follow, some hide out, some only come out when you have a few glasses of wine, some resent that they are not attended to, some are empowered, some are not.
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The first question I ask of a business client is: If you pull up to the parking lot of your business and sit in your car and wait, do you feel any resistance to walking in the door? What do you resist? How would you have to set up your work and your business so that you were looking forward to walking in the door?
Read MoreTruth is a fact, it is data, and it is measurable, collectable, recordable, and experiential. The opposite of truth is opinion, judgment, and interpretation. A simple example would be the difference between someone saying to another person “what you said is hurtful” vs. “when you said (x) I felt hurt”, the first interprets the others intention and the second is simply reporting the external and internal data.
Read MoreMost of us experience some interactions with other people where we feel like a victim of the other person; we let them take the lead and have the power in the interaction. This can be over the long term or short. We allow ourselves to be “at-affect” of others.
Read MoreTake this 14 day challenge to find the richness of information, symbolism, and mysteries in your everyday life. Discover the portals and opportunities for growth and inquiry that will lead you to adventure and growth.
Read MoreIt is interesting to look at language, it is the source code of your thinking and your thinking has a huge effect on your perception of life. Often times when we change our language we change our experience.
Read MoreIt is strange but I often notice that we have a hardship economy. I mean that we like to accumulate hardships like they are valuable.
Read MoreIf you were to write a list for Santa what would you put on it? What do you want? If your list is full of material things - what will those things give you?
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