Inquiry Method™ is a life perspective and also a tool for interacting with others. Interactions with others from a perspective of inquiry create great relationships.
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When I need, I am looking to get what I “need” from a situation. As a leader, maybe I need reassurance, safety, commitment, information, etc. But do you really want your employees focused on meeting your needs?
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Mostly we see our “negative” emotions as obstacles. Fear, sadness, anger, guilt, etc., are seen as in the way of being rational and acting appropriately.
Read MoreSelfishness is really just self-interest. We are inherently and unavoidably selfish in everything we do. No matter how altruistic our actions may look, we expect those actions to benefit us in some way or we wouldn’t do them.
Read MoreUnlocking and accessing the inner creative genius is the key to your advantage in all that you do.
Read MoreMany people are surprised when I advocate selfishness and they struggle with this concept. I think it’s time for a clarification.
Read MoreAmbition is highly regarded in our culture—we should “dream big,” “go for the gold,” it is the “secret.”
Read MoreIf we are clear on our values, then we are able to use them as a source of energy and inspiration, a grounding anchor that we can always come back to.
Read MoreLife balance is a popular topic; however, it implies trade-off’s and compromises. I do not like to live with compromise; I prefer the idea of “preference.”
Read MoreI had a breakthrough recently. Now it seems so obvious that I can’t believe I haven’t made this clearer or expressed it more directly.
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